Friday, January 18, 2013

Simple Life. Huge Lesson Learnt. Unforgettable Experience


Day 1

We arrived in Phnom Penh and after checking into Burly Guesthouse, we went for lunch at a Malaysian Halal restaurant. Thereafter, it was shopping at the local market for household items and food which we will need at the village. Split into 3 cooking teams, we had a different list in our hand, some money given by leader and off we went for our little “adventure”! It was amazing that despite the two blackouts at the market, we managed to get everything on our list within an hour (with leader Terrance sitting on the stairs waiting for us to “deposit” our buys in case they are too heavy and bulky to handle). Shopping at Lucky Supermarket was like a breeze, it felt just like Singapore and we were able to find whatever we need along the aisle and shelves.

Dinner was at another halal restaurant before we headed back to the guesthouse for debrief and rest.

Day 2

Visited a church where children were attending Sunday School. There are classrooms and even music room equipped with keyboards for the children. We played some games with them and danced chicken dance before going off to visit the Genocide Museum and S21 Prison Site. By the time we ended, all of us were famished and thankfully, Maggie spared us a piece of Horlicks sweet each! Back at Burly Guesthouse, we waited almost an hour for Calista. After lunch, we visited the slums and a school. Since it was a Sunday, there was no school but children were seen everywhere, playing volleyball, basketball etc. It did not take too long before Terrance suggested a game of volleyball between Lojo team and the children.

Day 3

Almost thinking the transport will not appear, we waited till around 15mins past 8am before the 20-seater appeared. All of us carried the logistics up the bus and we went on a 3-hour bus-ride to Baray province, Kampong Thom. We were about to stay in a villager’s house for 7 nights. It was there that we experienced amazing encounters which left a huge imprint in our memories!

Day 4-8

Thanks to the guys and host, a makeshift “bathroom” was built in less than an hour around the well! Using canvas sheet, and wooden poles, it was sturdy and even lockable! Everyday, many times a day, we had to draw water from the well. The water was used for washing our clothes, bathing, manual flushing of toilets etc. The 3 cooking teams rotated shifts to work at the “construction site” and “home”.

At the work site, we were supposed to build a toilet and a house for a needy family. It was then that we learnt how to mix cement, lay bricks, dig holes and chop wood. The experience was so enriching and we even spent the little break times to play with the children in the village.

For the team which stayed back at “home”, it was our responsibility to wash clothes for everybody and cooked three meals for the team. In addition, it was housekeeping, sweeping the sand out of the house (an ongoing process as there was constant “sandstorm” all day long).

Most importantly, we slept in sleeping bags, fed ourselves to the mosquitoes, and lived without electricity, piped water/gas and internet during those days! Nothing much really happened after nightfall as it was almost pitch dark. It was usually debrief, some chats and games etc, and we went to bed real early. On alternate nights, Theara invited his students over and we organised games or simple songs to teach them. We had quite a tiring time but satisfying and happy ones!

On the whole, the village life was very laid back but we managed to survive! The team built strong relationships and everybody became great friends.

Day 9-11

We spent two nights at Khmer Homestay while Aunty Esther and team were away for staff retreat. Those days, we visited a school to conduct lessons for the three classes, having divided ourselves into English, Hygiene and Games team. We also did distribution of gift packs consisting rice, soy sauce and blankets to poor families living in slums.

Day 12-16

After the project, we spent 5 nights in Siem Reap where we took the opportunity to visit Angkor Wat. It was such a magnificent sight to be there, enjoying the sunrise, walking through history with help of the guide and climbing high up to watch sunset.  We also visited the various schools where we donated money for water filters – it was definitely rewarding to know that children are now drinking clean, filtered water.

During R&R, we did shopping at Old Market, After Noon Market and Night Market. To understand more about the social enterprises, we also watched performance at an orphanage and a cello performance by Dr Beat who supported and built hospitals in Cambodia for the poor. Other stuff we did included nail spa (which we needed a lot, after doing so much work in the village) and dining at Blue Pumpkin, The Pizza Company etc.

We have learnt so much from this trip, and most of all, to appreciate life and people here in Singapore. It was truly an unforgettable experience!

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